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Eternal Family: A Commitment to Supporting Abandoned and Neglected Children
July 11 - 25, 2024
​Pole Pole (Swahili for Slowly or Little by Little)

In the heart of Tanzania, a remarkable initiative known as Eternal Family (EF) Village is redefining the concept of care for vulnerable children. Founded on the belief that every child deserves a loving and stable family environment, this organization seeks to provide a nurturing home for abandoned and neglected children. With a focus on creating family units led by dedicated couples, Eternal Family not only addresses the immediate needs of these children but also fosters their long-term growth and development.

In July of 2024, Building Humanity and 14 volunteers from 5 countries around the world travelled to Tabora, Tanzania to support Eternal Family Village complete a home for the twelfth family, ensuring twelve more orphaned children a forever home. Through firsthand experiences and interactions, Building Humanity explores the challenges faced by Tanzania’s orphans and vulnerable children (OVC) and the inspiring stories of resilience and hope that emerge from them.

Over the past few years, Eternal Family has gained recognition for its innovative model, attracting the interest of the Tanzanian government and inspiring other orphanages to seek guidance from its founders. The organization's commitment to community involvement and sustainable practices has led to numerous collaborative efforts, including the construction of family homes, educational programs, and outreach initiatives that support struggling families in the surrounding areas.

An Eternal Family

Eternal Family believes that the foundation of a child's success lies in the strength of familial bonds. Their approach centers on dedicated married couples who take on the profound responsibility of nurturing a family. These couples may or may not have biological children of their own, but they embrace the opportunity to care for 12 children on average, creating a cohesive family unit. They prioritize placements for children who have lost their parents to HIV/AIDS, malaria, or yellow fever.

Founded in 2008 by Mircea and Lidia Toca, a couple from Caminul Felix Orphanage in Romania, where they raised 16 orphaned children for over 25 years. After their children grew up, the Tocas sought to establish a similar sanctuary in Africa. Today, Eternal Family operates two villages. The first village features 10 family homes that provide care for 140 children, while the second village is currently under construction, with two new homes ready to welcome two additional families. These families have been carefully selected and will receive 12-14 children upon moving in, ensuring that siblings remain together.

Once a family reaches full capacity, that structure remains intact until all the children transition out of the home. Children are never forced to leave at a specific age; instead, they receive support throughout their college years and beyond until they are ready to stand on their own, typically around 25 years of age. When a young adult moves out, a new child in not brought in to fill the void, thereby maintaining a stable family unit. This consistency is vital for fostering strong relationships and allows parents to gradually step back after 20+ years of dedicated service, unless they choose to continue caring for a new generation of children.

Tanzania's Orphan Crisis

With a population of approximately 60 million, Tanzania has more than half of its residents under the age of 18, and over 70% are younger than 30 (UNICEF). In Tabora, where our team is based, nearly 49.2% of the population is under 15 years old. (Tanzania Census 2022) According to the 2022 Tanzania National Census, there are approximately 1,014,366 orphans in the country, with around 346,733 aged zero to five, 378,253 aged six to twelve, and about 289,380 aged thirteen to seventeen. Other reports suggest that the actual number of orphans may be as high as 2-3 million, primarily due to HIV/AIDS, poverty, urbanization, and unemployment.

Historically, extended families have played a crucial role in caring for orphans and vulnerable children. A 2011 UNICEF study indicated that grandmothers were responsible for nearly 50% of orphaned children in informal care. However, the ability of extended families to support OVC has diminished significantly due to the overwhelming number of children in need, resulting in a burden on older caregivers and the children themselves (Abebe & Aase 2007, TACAIDS 2013). Moreover, financial constraints hinder kinship care in Tanzania, as these systems lack adequate government support (Join Learning Initiative on Children and AIDS (JLCA 2009)). The absence of a safety net for OVC and a struggling social welfare system exacerbate these challenges.

As of 2022, nearly 26 million people in Tanzania live in extreme poverty, with a threshold of just $1.90 per day (Natalie Cowling, 2024). As families seek work far from home, the bonds that allow them to take in orphaned children weaken. Even when families are close, many struggle to support additional children financially. In some cases, parents surrender their children to local orphanages, hoping for a better life. While many children in group homes visit extended family during school breaks, they often return due to financial constraints.

Heartbreaking stories abound at Eternal Family. One recent case involved a four-month-old baby boy, the latest child placed in their care. Found abandoned in the woods with his umbilical cord still attached, he suffered from a blood infection for three months. Thankfully, he has since recovered and is now thriving in a loving family at Eternal Family.

On our team’s way to Tabora, we stopped to visit Nzeha Orphanage, currently a traditional group home style orphanage. There we witnessed the heartbreaking reality of the orphan crisis firsthand. Mircea, who recently acquired the orphanage, is working to create four family homes to transition the children into more nurturing family environments. Shortly before our arrival, a mother left her three children aged one to six at the front gate. Despite the director's pleas for her to keep them for another week while he arranged accommodations, she left them crying on the street. Mircea explained that this situation is increasingly common as families struggle to provide for their children, leading them to believe that leaving their children in orphanages offers a better future. Mircea arranged to cover the children's monthly expenses ($30) until they can be placed in families at Eternal Family Village.

Education Initiatives

Education in Tanzania is costly, and Eternal Family recognized the need for an affordable solution to educate their 140 children effectively. In 2022, they opened the Eternal Pre & Primary School, serving both their families and the wider community with a capacity of 680 students. Their goal is to provide a more economical educational option for EF families and local residents. While EF children still pay tuition, the rates at Eternal’s school are significantly lower than those of other institutions in the area. Within just two years of opening, they have enrolled 420 students and achieved a ranking of #4 among schools in Tabora. This recognition will attract more teachers and further enhance their standing while keeping tuition low to ensure accessibility for the community.

As more children from Eternal Family progress to secondary school, the demand for a dedicated secondary school has become an immediate priority for the coming year. Fundraising is currently in process to begin construction of a Secondary/High School to be able to continue educating the children within EF Village and the surrounding community at a fraction of the cost of other local schools.

Striving for Self-Sufficiency

Eternal Family is committed to achieving food security and self-sufficiency. They currently cultivate 110 acres by hand in Village 1, where each family can grow crops such as white corn, rice, sweet potatoes, beans, peanuts, and sunflowers for cooking oil. Last year, they hand-shelled 2,500 bushels of corn, and they anticipate doubling that yield this year. They are actively seeking a corn sheller to enhance operations.

Recently, they constructed a workmen's house to accommodate six local men who will assist with farming and increase food production capabilities. There is also a 2,500-catch fish pond and plans to turn an existing pond near village 2 into a carp pond.

The chicken farm currently houses 450 chickens, producing approximately 360 eggs daily. This operation is self-sustaining, meeting the egg and meat needs of the village while generating income through market sales. In 2025 they plan to scale up to 2,000 chickens to evaluate profitability, with aspirations to expand to 10,000 chickens if successful.

Additionally, EF is clearing land for a pilot dairy farm program, designed and managed by Ohio dairy farmer Mark Yeazel of Ja-Bob Holsteins. After selling his dairy farm in 2023, Mark dedicated half the year to Tanzania to help establish this initiative. One hundred acres are being dedicated to a foraging forest for the cattle. At the center will be a a two-bedroom herder's house, a calf and heifer barn, and a milking barn. A single mother with two children has been selected to serve as the herdswoman, and we will begin with 10 cows to assess the program's sustainability before scaling up.

Expanding the Eternal Family Model

The Tanzanian government has expressed a keen interest in the family-based orphanage model, having visited Eternal Family Village multiple times over the past few years. They are eager to develop a similar program nationwide and are looking to Mircea and the families of Eternal Family for guidance and expertise.

Several other orphanages have also reached out to Mircea for assistance. One such facility, the XXX Orphanage, is run by an elderly gentleman who is no longer able to care for the 40 children under his supervision. He has approached Mircea to collaborate on a plan to transition the care of these children to Eternal Family.

Additionally, Mircea has recently taken over Nzeha Orphanage, a group home style orphanage that was originally established by a Swedish couple. As of early 2024, this facility includes separate dormitories for boys and girls, staffed by a house mother and a small team of caregivers. Mircea's vision involves constructing family homes on the adjacent property, with the goal of transitioning the children into nurturing family environments over the coming year. By expanding the Eternal Family model, Mircea aims to create more loving homes for vulnerable children, fostering a sense of belonging and stability in their lives.

Construction at Eternal Family

At Eternal Family, the construction efforts are deeply rooted in local craftsmanship and community involvement. Structures are made from handmade bricks. The brick-making process is a labor-intensive yet efficient endeavor. Local craftsmen utilize traditional methods to produce approximately 500 bricks each day. Constructing a single Eternal Family house requires around 9,000 bricks, while the two-bedroom farmhouse needs about 2,500 bricks, and the workers' home was built with approximately 1,500 bricks.

During Building Humanity’s visit, our group had the opportunity to witness the final stages of a well being dug at the cattle farm. This marks the third well constructed on the property. The first two were not deep enough and did not meet the needs of the community. This well was showing promise to provide a consistent water supply with adequate pressure. Access to clean, reliable water is essential for both the livestock and the families living in the village.

Currently, day workers are employed at a rate of $6 per day, which provides essential income for their families. Looking ahead, there are plans to increase wages and improve working conditions, thereby enhancing the quality of life for laborers and fostering a more sustainable community. By investing in the workforce, Eternal Family not only uplifts individual families but also strengthens the entire community, ensuring that everyone can thrive together as they build a brighter future for the children of Eternal Family.

Building Humanity Team at Eternal Family Village

Building Humanity’s international team commenced our 14-day construction trip in Arusha, nestled beneath the majestic shadow of Mt. Kilimanjaro. The initial days were devoted to team bonding and immersing ourselves in the rich culture, history, and significant sites of Tanzania. This experience provided valuable context for our volunteers, helping us understand the significance of our mission and the values cherished by the Tanzanian people.

Our first full day was spent hiking through lush banana plantations, exploring a breathtaking waterfall, and unwinding at a scenic hilltop coffee farm. Here, we learned the art of processing coffee beans and grinding them like the locals. We enjoyed lunch with stunning views of the countryside and swinging gently over the hillside, and our evening concluded with a delightful Tanzanian-style barbecue.

Over the next three days, our team covered considerable ground, embarking on safari jeeps to explore the wonders of Ngorongoro Crater, Serengeti National Park, and a Maasai village. In addition to spotting the famed Big Five, our team was fortunate enough to encounter nearly every animal Tanzania has to offer. With our spirits high from these wildlife encounters and fully embracing the Hakuna Matata lifestyle, we felt rejuvenated and ready to focus on the true purpose of our journey. After departing the Serengeti, we undertook the long trek to Tabora, where we were greeted at Eternal Family Village with joyous song and dance from over 140 children.

A significant portion of Building Humanity’s work hours was dedicated to the intensive task of painting House twelve. Every surface—both inside and out—required two coats of primer followed by two coats of paint. This labor-intensive undertaking was executed entirely by hand using brushes and rollers. Essential tools, such as extension poles for reaching ceilings and high areas, were not readily available, so our resourceful team improvised by crafting makeshift poles from sticks and creatively modifying mops to assist in the process. While painting for days on end was not the most glamorous task, it was a crucial step to prepare House 12 for the new family.

On days when painting was interrupted by logistical challenges or delays in materials, the team pivoted to support the construction of the new dairy farm. We assisted in stretching chain-link fencing around the farm’s perimeter and contributed to the handmade brick production for the shepherd’s home.

Several volunteers from the UK, specializing in solar energy, took the opportunity to assess the energy needs of both the village and the school, which currently experience power outages throughout the day and into the evening. This lack of electricity poses significant challenges, particularly as it affects the water pump. The goal is to evaluate potential solar solutions that could bring sustainable energy to the village and school. The volunteers will compile their findings into a feasibility report upon returning home, outlining actionable steps to transition the village and adjacent school to 100% solar power—a critical project in need of immediate funding.

Before embarking on our journey to Tanzania, Los Angeles artist Justine Alvarez generously donated two large acrylic paintings for Building Humanity to present to Eternal Family. Inspired by the stories and lives of the children at Eternal Family, her hope was that these paintings would bring warmth and joy to the new families moving into their homes. Several volunteers dedicated time to sourcing wood and supplies to stretch the paintings properly. On our final night at Eternal Family, we proudly presented the artworks to the Tanzanian director, George, and hung them in Homes #11 and #12—a heartfelt welcome gift for the incoming families.

 

Community Outreach

During the weekend, the team took the initiative to deliver care packages to ten families in need, in two nearby villages. Each care package included essential staples such as rice, dried fish, bottled water, and cooking oil, along with boxes of cookies as special treats for the children. As they visited each household, the team heard poignant stories of struggle and resilience. They met an elderly grandmother caring for her three young grandchildren, a single father raising six children on his own, and a man who had lost his sight and could no longer provide for his wife and five children. Most families lived in handmade mud homes, none having access to running water or indoor plumbing.

Each area visited was overseen by an elected chairman, a respected figure responsible for overseeing matters of 20 to 50 homesteads. While this role is unpaid, it carries considerable esteem within the community. The chairman plays a crucial part in resolving disputes and monitoring the well-being of households in their jurisdiction. This leadership structure helps Mircea and the Eternal Family team identify families in need and focus their support where it is most critical.

Lunches and dinners were cherished moments shared with the families at Eternal Family. Each day, a different family prepared meals, creating a space for connection and cultural exchange. After dinner, the team enjoyed heartfelt introductions, where parents and children shared their aspirations for the future. Often, families showcased their culture and family bonds through traditional dances or songs. These gatherings provided unique opportunities to connect with the children and learn about the diverse motivations of parents, deepening the understanding of the personal stories behind each child's journey to Eternal Family.

STEAM DAY

One of the highlights of our time on site was a STEAM Education Day held at the Eternal Pre & Primary School, which brought together students from the community and EF children. Mircea emphasized that this was a groundbreaking initiative, as such an event had never been organized for the children before. The day began with all students gathered in the cafeteria, where they were introduced to the concept of STEAM—Science, Technology, Engineering, Arts, and Mathematics. Each team member shared their personal journey, detailing their educational backgrounds and career paths, which inspired the young minds present.

Following the introduction, the participants broke into five distinct groups, each focused on engaging activities designed to foster creativity and critical thinking. The sessions included building spaghetti and marshmallow towers, crafting paper airplanes, launching rubber band rockets, creating mentos and coke volcanoes, engaging in creative drawing, and constructing water balloon parachutes. Older children from the orphanage acted as translators, facilitating communication and ensuring inclusivity. The atmosphere was lively and somewhat chaotic, filled with laughter and excitement as the children immersed themselves in the hands-on projects.

After our STEAM Day activities, we witnessed a remarkable shift in the career aspirations of many children. During our nightly dinner introductions, it became evident that the event had sparked new dreams and ambitions. Whereas prior to STEAM Day, we rarely heard children expressing a desire to become engineers or architects, suddenly, a multitude of them enthusiastically declared these fields as their newfound career goals. The excitement in their voices was a testament to the inspiring impact of the hands-on activities and the possibilities they had envisioned for their futures.

Asante Sana (Swahili for Thank You Very Much)

The time spent at Eternal Family was a transformative experience, not only for the Building Humanity team but also for the children and families involved. Through hands-on projects, meaningful interactions, and community outreach, the team witnessed firsthand the spirit of Tanzania. The dedication to building a nurturing environment for vulnerable children is evident in every aspect of the Eternal Family Village, from the construction of family homes to the innovative educational initiatives that inspire young minds.

As Eternal Family continues to expand its model and reach, the support of the community and partnerships with local leaders will be vital in addressing the challenges faced by families in the region. The stories shared by those in need serve as powerful reminders of the impact that compassion and collaboration can have on individuals and families striving for a better life.

Through initiatives like STEAM Education Day and the delivery of care packages, the Building Humanity team forged connections that transcend cultural and linguistic barriers, fostering a sense of unity and hope. By investing in the future of children and their families, Eternal Family and Building Humanity are not only transforming lives but also nurturing the next generation of leaders who will carry forward the values of kindness, resilience, and community.

As we look to the future, partnerships like these are committed to building a brighter tomorrow—one where every child has the opportunity to thrive in a loving family environment. The journey is ongoing, and with continued support, the vision of a sustainable, compassionate community is well within reach.

Ways to Continue Supporting Eternal Family Village

Eternal Family is continuing to grow and is always in search of additional funding. Current project needs are:

PV systems for Villages and School – A feasibility analysis is currently under way. A rough estimate on the cost to get the village and school set up with PV is TBD.

Family homes – Village 2 is still under construction with 6 more homes planned. An additional 4 homes are planned near Nzeha Orphanage to transition those children into family homes. Each home costs roughly $62,400 USD.

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Project Cost

Each home costs $62,358.24 to build. 

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Secondary/High School – More and more children from EF Village are entering secondary/high school. The need to create an affordable school for both EF and the broader community is critical. An estimate for the cost to construct the school is TBD.

Mission Building – Eternal Family is working on building a multipurpose center that will house several different programs:

  • A large gathering space where the entire EF village can congregate for gatherings

  • Three apartments for families that support Eternal Village who need to be closer to the village (Directors Mircea and Lidia Toca, Grounds and Maintenance Manager Cornel Opinca and his family, and farmer Mark Yeazel and his wife)

  • Dorm rooms for visiting volunteers to be able to stay on site and support EF Village and families. This will also create an additional revenue stream for the village where instead of volunteers staying in a hotel in town and requiring transportation which can be expensive and logistically complicated, they can rent the dorm rooms on site and be within walking distance to the village.

An estimate for this building is TBD

Safari Education Home - EF would like to build a home near the entrance to Serengeti National Park. This home would be a launching pad for families to be able to experience wildlife first hand. Most Tanzanians have never been to a national park or on safari. The Tanzanian government has tried to encourage locals to visit the parks by making the entrance fees extremely low for residents. Still, transportation and lodging once there is cost prohibitive. With this home, EF families could bring their children to the Serengeti National Park once a year and offer an experience few people in Tabora are able to experience. 

Building Humanity Project Team:

  • Arron Donald Scott (Scotland)

  • Asher Colshan Morrell (California, USA)

  • Emy Lu Weller (California, USA)

  • Erin Colshan, Director (California, USA)

  • Fezal Terzioglu (Turkey)

  • Gage Colshan Morrell (California, USA)

  • Gwyneth Morrell (California, USA)

  • Jelena Duric (Serbia)

  • Justine Leung (Canada)

  • Laura Morales Hernadez (Spain)

  • Lauren Woodward (United Kingdom)

  • Michael Morrell, Project Manager (California, USA)

  • Monica Seshasayee (Scotland)

  • Sloan Colshan Morrell (California, USA)

  • Tamara Morrell (California, USA)

 

Eternal Family team:

  • Mircea Toca, Director (Romania)

  • Cornel Gil, Youth Director (Tanzania)

  • Yohana Dioniz, Media (Tanzania)

  • Cornel Opinca, Maintenance (Romania)

  • George, Director & Parent (Tanzania)

 

 

Special thanks to the Los Angeles based artist Justine Almaraz for providing two incredible paintings to decorate the new family homes.

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